An affair. There are so many possibilities and reasons for this type of relationship to start, but one fact remains…

It’s a fuck up, waiting to implode!

For those who have never been caught in a love triangle, the mind boggles.

The judgement is there. The lack of empathy is there. The name calling and endless gossip forms part of their day.

Shit happens in life.

One minute you are minding your own business, and the next…

BOOM! 💥 You are in love with a married man!

A woman who gets caught up in an affair with a married man often bears the brunt of much wrath and mudslinging.

When speaking to women who have been caught in the trap of being somebody’s mistress, one of the BIG questions I am regularly asked is: “Do I STAY, or do I GO?”

Being blindsided sets off a terrible, overwhelming emotional reaction.

When we are deeply bonded emotionally to someone, and this bond is fractured, it feels like the ground collapses beneath us.

So, let’s talk about being BLINDSIDED!

You know, that awful situation, where you get burned by someone you trust.

While the empty promises and the false dreams are all part of the package when you are THE OTHER WOMAN, this can also happen in ANY other relationship.

“THE OTHER WOMAN.” Is this how people describe you?

I am sure you are also somebody’s daughter, or mother, or sister, or friend.

I’m moving on…

With these 3 little words, she had started the process of reclaiming her power and her destiny.

It is never easy walking away from a relationship.

Especially if you are still in love with the man.

When a woman learns that her husband has a mistress, it is one of the most devastating moments in her life!

Emotions are raw, and insecurities are high.

To THE OTHER WOMAN, this one is for you.

One day, when you finally have the strength to walk away, you need to know you are not alone in this.

Yes, she had made him a priority in her life, and slowly she was realising she would always be his second choice…

When she first discovered he was “happily” married, she was in shock.

She didn’t want to believe it. How COULD she believe it?

This is a shout out for all the women out there who might be in a vulnerable place right now, whether you KNOW this about yourself, or if it’s on a subconscious level…
You need to be very aware that affairs don’t start in bedrooms...

One of the things that keep her stuck in a relationship that was going nowhere, was not knowing what she wanted for herself.

Every decision she had made over the past seven years, had always been discussed with him first.

Yes, he will make you feel like he is moving mountains, to be with you, when in fact, he is hiding BEHIND the mountain, to be with you.

Sometimes we are friends. Sometimes we are more than friends. And sometimes I am just a stranger to you. I am your mistress.