What to do?

So, you are in a relationship with a married man.

Maybe you already knew he was married, maybe you didn’t.

Maybe you were led to believe his marriage was over by the time you met him.

Maybe he told you he was miserable at home, and that it was only a matter of time before he was going to leave his wife.

Maybe you just wanted a little excitement, and you went into this relationship, with your eyes wide open, telling yourself that this was just a quick fling, and then fell madly in love with him.

Many times others can see the chemistry between the two of you, before you realize or acknowledge it to yourself.

There are so many possibilities and reasons for this type of relationship to start, but one fact remains…

It’s a fuck up, waiting to implode!

Somebody is going to get hurt.

And sadly the statistics show that you have more chance of landing on Mars, than landing your man.

That being said, there ARE great unions that have started as affairs. There ARE men who really do fall in love with another woman outside of their marriage.
There ARE men who leave their wives and end up marrying their lovers.

The tricky part, is trying to figure out if you are being used, or if his feelings are genuine.

At first you THINK you know, but as weeks become months, and months become years, and nothing has changed, you need to be asking yourself some serious questions.

You need to be asking yourself the RIGHT questions.
You need to stop making excuses for him, and decide what it is that YOU want from this relationship.
And this is not something that can easily be done on your own.

Having been in your shoes, this is something I know and understand.
The happiness and the heartache.
The ups and the downs.
The excitement and the fear.
The companionship and the loneliness.
Yes, I know how this feels.