The truth will always find a way out

The truth WILL come out…

Often during an affair, there is fear, as well as a deep, sometimes subconscious, desire to be able to share your secret with someone.

Some of us find a trusted friend, others don’t have anyone they can tell. Some of us are cornered into confessing our secrets.

We just need to realise that in the end, the truth WILL come out.
It ALWAYS does.

It could take weeks, or months and in some cases even years.

But the truth will always find a way out.

Finding a secret keeper, a confidant, an ear who could even possibly understand the situation, is no easy task.

Time and time again, I have seen friendships ruined, when one friend decides to reveal their secret to another friend.

The trusted friend is put in a terrible position, and eventually they can no longer keep your secret. It becomes overwhelming and they start to feel complicit in you secret.

The wheels are going to come off, it’s just a matter of time…

The secret keeper can make you or break you. It’s a very fine line.