Break free from the chains

As I mentioned before, people love to gossip and to live vicariously through someone else’s drama.

So finding a trusted friend is not easy.

And then there is the added concern of what the actual intention is of our secret keeper.

Do they truly care?
Do they truly want to help?
Can they really be trusted?

Some people really WANT to be your secret keeper.

Others become your secret keeper by mistake.

Then there is the secret keeper, AFTER the affair has been discovered.

And the most dangerous secret keeper is the wounded partner.
If the wounded partner wants to keep your affair a secret, be very, VERY careful.

On the surface you might think your partner is magnanimous, caring and loves you so much that they want to save the relationship, and that "nobody ever has to know what you have done."

You might THINK you are being given a Hail Mary, but you are basically giving away your power.

And the secret, and the shame and fear that comes along for the ride, can be crippling.

It can go on for years and years.

A weapon that is used over and over and over again to control you.

Yes, you need to release what’s in your heart and on your mind.

You need to break free from the chains of the secrets.

It’s the only way you are going to feel less overwhelmed, less stressed, less exhausted, less ashamed, and gain CLARITY.

But just be careful who you share your secret with!

Remember, everybody close to you will have their own agendas and their own opinions.

If you don’t have someone impartial and non-judgmental to talk to, then please reach out.

I am ready, willing and able to help you gain CLARITY.

Give me a shout, and I will help you out!