It’s NO-vember

It’s NOVEMBER!

Yes, I know it’s not the 1st and those who know me well, will know why this post is only going up today.

For those who don’t know, the reason is a simple one.
I am a rebel at heart.
And who the fuck made the rule that MY first post of the new month HAS TO BE posted on the 1st of the month? Seriously?!!!
I choose my own way, and my own day, thank you very much!

SO, it’s NO~VEMBER, and I am excited!

My theme for the next few weeks is all about saying NO to the things that no longer serve us, and saying YES to the things that fill us up and energize us!

It’s a time to learn how to set a boundary or two, and more importantly how to keep those boundaries in place.

Being “the other woman” has got a lot to do with boundaries, both our own and those of others.

And while I will be speaking on behalf of, to, and for the “other women” of this world, this month’s theme can certainly apply to all of us!

So get ready because this month is going to be one of those memorable times in your life, where you learn to finally stand up and say NO, even if it’s not LOUD and in capital letters, even if it’s just a teeny, tiny no…
OR

You are going to watch quietly as you see others step up to the challenge, kind of like that kid who pushes her friend in front of her, saying “you go first”… which is also perfectly good in my eyes!
Side note:
No, I am not the one to push my friend and tell her to go first.
Nor am I the one being pushed to be used as a test dummy.
I’m the one who hears the word “challenge” and says “bring it on!”

So, whether you learn by seeing, or learn by doing, my wish for you is that you learn to say no, just once this month, in exchange for a yes to something for yourself.

Sending love and light as always,
Annie