You need a friend to hear your story

Shit happens in life.
We make mistakes.
We cross lines.
We take wrong turns.

And there is nothing worse than being alone when the shit hits the fan, and you have nobody you can talk to about it.

And the only reason you can’t talk about it, is because it’s a big fat secret!

You are HIS secret.
And he is now YOUR secret too.
Why?
Because he is married…

And if your relationship has been going on for long enough, usually by now he has told at least ONE of his mates.
Pouring is heart out.
Asking his buddy for advice.
What should he do?

But you?
You are essentially fucked if you tell anyone!
And do you want to know why?

It’s because you are a woman, and you have slept with another woman’s husband!

YOU are seen as the bad person, not him.
You are the one with no morals, not him.

He is just a simple bloke, and YOU dug your claws in and bewitched him.

Of course this is not true, but that is how society treats women who have relationships with married men!
FACT!

It’s all YOUR fault ‘cos the poor dude couldn’t resist your charms.

Let’s be real, no wife wants to believe that her husband would willingly cheat on her.

So ipso facto, YOU are the problem!
And you have nobody in your corner.
Nobody you can talk to.

You are FUCKED as far as anyone else is concerned!

What you NEED is someone in your corner.
Someone who understands.
Someone who won’t judge you.
Someone who has been in your shoes.
I am here if you need me.
The choice is yours.

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