The L.O.C.T. Moment

I can see the pain in her eyes.
I can hear the hurt in her voice.

She has just poured her heart out to me, and she is sitting staring at me, a broken soul, waiting for me to give her the answers.

Waiting for me to tell her what to do.
Waiting for me to SPELL IT OUT.
Waiting for me to bring out a magic wand and make everything okay again.

This is not my first rodeo.
I have been in this position many times before.

I know that I have guided and steered the conversation in a way that will help her.

I know I just need to be patient…
I know it will come…
It ALWAYS does…

This is the uncomfortable pause.

It’s the moment right before she realises that she doesn’t need me to give her the answers.
She doesn’t need me to give her solutions.
She doesn’t need me to tell her what to do.
She doesn’t need a magic wand.
And then it hits.

I can see it… the shift… it is very visible, and almost always accompanied by an involuntary sound out of her mouth.
It can be expressed as shock, anger, awe, delight, amazement, excitement, hope. Any range of emotions.

For it’s in this moment that she realises that she HAS all the answers, deep inside of herself.
She KNOWS what to do.
She becomes FULLY AWARE in the moment.
The CLARITY hits, and it’s a beautiful moment.

I like to call it the L.O.C.T. MOMENT.
And it’s truly a highlight in my day.

Sending love and Light,
Annie

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